Making sure you’re the best husband or best wife ever

How can you be the best husband or best wife ever? It might seem simple but believe me, you need to put some work into it. Yes, you might think that you have found your soulmate. But that doesn’t mean that now you just sit and magically, your relationship will work. You need to consciously want it to work. Here are a few tips on how to have that lasting relationship

How to be the best spouse ever!

Be respectful

Be kind and respectful to your spouse if you want to be the best wife ever. There is no need to say things you will regret later. Even if it’s between an argument, try hearing your words first before uttering them. If you want your marriage to last then you need to be kind to each other. Lck of respect = lack of love. Period!

Surprise him/her with new exciting activities

At times, all a couple needs to revamp their relationship is to just buy a little gift for one another. It doesn’t have to be expensive. It’s the thought that counts. Be creative. How about buying him or her something that reminds you of the first day you met. Better still, reenact that day and do exactly what you did together. At the same time, you can do fun stuff like indoor rock climbing, bowling or kayaking… The list is endless. You just need to open your mind.

Try sharing the load

They say housework is for the wifey. I wonder who came up with that one. The couples who stay together do stuff together. Whether it’s cooking, cleaning up or even garage stuff, just do it together. There are moments here and there that you will coincidentally come up that you will always laugh about. And they say laughter is the best medicine… for everything…

To be the best wife ever, try mixing it up

This goes to the bedroom. Try different things. Role-playing, BDSM, bedroom games… Just spice things up. Make it a point to try out sexual stuff that you normally won’t. Just have a safe word!