After the initial hunky dory in an interracial date comes a time when you feel left out from the plans of your interracial date. This is the time to either talk to your interracial date about your feelings or even snap the relationship forever. Interracial dating is a fad these days however carrying on for a long term with interracial dating is not everybody’s cup of tea. While prospecting online and selecting a date online the true characteristics of a person may not come before you which lead to discontentment and a feeling of cheated later in the relationship. Before the onset of this feeling take control of the relationship and your life.
He does not have time for an interracial date
You planned a nice time out with him over the weekend or took a day off from work just to be with him knowing well that he is not working that day. However he makes an excuse by saying he is not well or has got some work with someone and late in the day you notice his Instagram account with him holding a beer with his pals from work. This is clear indicator that the interracial date has ended for you.
Social acceptance of the interracial date from him is nil
He does not acknowledge you as his girl friend before his friends and family and brushes you under the carpet. You are introduced just as another friend even after six months of dating. He makes it a point not to involve you in any social do’s that involve the side of his family or friends. This is a big red flag for any interracial date. You go to get out fast out of such a relationship before it takes a toll on your emotional and mental well being.
You are the only one to put in effort for the interracial date
It is you who makes an effort to meet. It is you who does all the planning. It is you who calls him up to talk to him. It is you who pays all the bills whenever you meet. It is you who is putting all the effort to make the interracial date work. In case you realize it after a gap of three or four months end the relationship proactively since it is no use continuing in a relationship where you alone are responsible to make the relationship work. Relationships are two way and if one of the partner is lacking in effort it is no point in continuing it.